Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Relationships In The New Energy

Relationships In The New Energy
by Stefanie Miller

August 2010.

Everything in creation holds an energy frequency. It seems so obvious
to many of us. Yet, so many have not embraced that philosophy. There
are those that still choose to live unconsciously and make choices
that are not in direct alignment and in harmony with their lives.
Living, as well as non-living objects, hold resonancy, the frequency
to which they vibrate.

All of our relationships are undergoing a massive shift. As we are
clearing out the old within, we can expect how we relate to others
would need to change as well. In order for us to transition to the
next level of conscious awareness our relationships need to be in
harmonious balance.

The first relationship we must work on is the one we have with
ourselves. Making sure we are honoring our body and taking good care
of ourselves. I'm finding I need much more rest, exercise, good
nutrition, fun, fresh air, pure water and supplements than ever
before. Clearing out clutter from my environment has been extremely
important as well. I have taken the time to give to myself what I
need. Our energetic body easily becomes depleted in this intense
energy, especially for the highly sensitive ones. I can feel the
sticky, slick energy of the oil spill in my energy field at times.
Clearing out what we each hold within, assists in the purging of
negativity from our planet. Individually we are doing the work that
benefits the collective.

In our intimate relationships with our long term partner or in
beginning a new one, we are yearning for a partnership that is in
balance with what we want and need. In the past we searched for
someone specifically to raise a family with, financial security,
companionship, and sexual fulfillment. While of course all of those
reasons are still pertinent in what we need in a relationship in the
new energy, the most important thing is resonancy, which is feeling a
deep, fulfilling connection in a relationship. I call it a familiar,
someone who feels familiar to me. I can be myself around them, not
having to make idle chatter and connect with or without words.
Oftentimes we connect with a soulmate, which is not always the easiest
relationship. Some soulmate relationships come to teach us things
about ourselves. A familiar is someone whom we can breathe easy around
and feels like home.

We have a yearning to be seen and accepted for who we truly are. We
cannot fix or rescue someone else that cannot or will not do it for
themselves. Seeking a partnership based on a respect, trust, kindness,
love, intimacy, passion, and joy brings true fulfillment. We are
beyond settling in order to have the status quo. We instead seek
relationships that are nurturing, giving, and make us feel good. If it
causes us an uneasy feeling insdie, than our intuition tells us to get
out. New energy relationships bring out the best in us, not the worst.

Rather than be in an unfulfilling relationship its best to work on
ourselves until we the right person comes along. When we are in
alignment, and in balance the pathways to the next step of the journey
become very obvious and illuminated.

Our relationship within our family is shifting as well. Whether it is
with our children, parents, siblings or extended family. We can no
longer tolerate any behavior that does not honor our divinity. It's
important to have healthy boundaries and honor how we deserve to be
treated. We are setting the standard to demand respect and kindness
from others. When we treat ourselves the way in which we wish to be
treated it sets the tone of how things must be. No matter how the
interactions in the past were with certain family members, it is no
longer acceptable or tolerable in the new energy. It doesn't take a
lot of drama to change the dynamics, but it does take consistency,
patience, and perseverance.

We must have self worth and self love in order to know what we want
and deserve in our relationships. Being gentle and kind to ourselves
is so necessary at this time. Do not overextend or overexert your time
or energy. Realize your needs matter and in order to be present, open,
and connected to others we must first be connected with ourselves. In
order for us to have a true connection within, we need to be in
alignment with Source and all that is.

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